We all know what it’s like to drop the ball especially when searching for a job. It’s amazing how friends, family, and co-workers seem to disappear when we fail—we feel so alone and can’t seem to escape the pain of frustration and regret.
Yet, this very pain can bring relief and strength, for each time we fail it can lead to personal growth and development.
Here are a few tips to help you pick up the pieces after dropping the ball. Use them each time you experience a “failure moment”. The more they are applied the quicker you will rebound and recover from failure.
Confront your fears.
To overcome something you must first engage it head-on. Recognize that what you fear the most rarely comes true.
Be kind to yourself.
Realize that you are not perfect and are bound to make mistakes–that’s how you learn. Remember, “To err is human”….
Choose encouragement.
Absolutely refuse to be discouraged. Look at your challenges as opportunities. Focus on creative solutions to issues and problems. Sometimes finding out what doesn’t work is the key to finding out what does work, so apply the learnings from previous failures to further enhance your successes.




